EMDR Therapy for Domestic Violence, Partner Abuse & Assault Trauma

For many who have experienced domestic violence, partner abuse, or single-incidence assault, the scars linger like a relentless shadow that distorts both the world around you and the way you see yourself. The haunting replay of distressing events not only triggers vivid flashbacks and overwhelming emotions of fear, sorrow, and anger but also sows seeds of self-blame—making you wonder if the abuse was somehow your fault.

Physically, this trauma manifests as chronic tension, a racing heart, and restless nights marred by unsettling nightmares. The constant state of alertness robs you of inner peace, turning familiar spaces into sources of anxiety. Combined with the heavy burden of self-blame and isolation, these experiences cast a long, oppressive shadow over your daily life, making it difficult to reclaim a sense of safety, belonging, and self-worth.

Irada Yunusova, Psy.D
Clinical Psychologist
Expertises
PTSD, violence trauma & physical attack
Approach
EMDR, CBT & DBT
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Ami Zala, Psy.D
Clinical Psychologist
Expertises
Domestic violence, partner abuse & codependency
Approach
EMDR, relational & attachment-focused
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How We Work with Domestic Violence, Partner Abuse & Physical Assault

We are Clinical Psychologists specializing in EMDR, blending deep trauma work with validated techniques to help you break free from the lasting effects of physical assault—whether perpetrated by a stranger or a loved one. We understand that such traumatic events can shatter your sense of safety, leaving you with deep emotional wounds that manifest as self-blame, fear, and difficulty trusting others. These experiences often trigger recurring patterns of hypervigilance and emotional distress that can undermine your confidence and sense of self-worth.

Using our advanced training in Clinical Psychology, we employ EMDR to reprocess the painful memories of assault and challenge the internalized beliefs that keep you trapped in cycles of fear and self-doubt. Techniques like CBT, mindfulness, and relational therapy further empower you to reclaim your autonomy, set healthy boundaries, and ultimately liberate yourself from the recurring cycle of trauma and emotional pain.

Our Specialists in EMDR for Domestic Abuse, Partner Violence & Physical Assault

Dr. Irada Yunusova

Clinical Psychologist

Dr. Irada Yunusova, Psy.D, is a Clinical Psychologist specializing in the treatment of PTSD, violence trauma, and the effects of physical attack. She deeply understands that the experience of violence—whether from a random stranger or someone close—can leave a profound impact on your sense of safety, constantly keeping you in a state of hypervigilance. These traumatic events often etch deep emotional scars, fueling a persistent fear, self-blame, and a feeling of being perpetually on guard.

Utilizing a powerful integrative approach that combines EMDR, CBT, and DBT, Dr. Yunusova tailors her therapy to address both the emotional and cognitive aspects of trauma. EMDR helps you reprocess and diminish the intensity of traumatic memories, while CBT and DBT work to challenge and reshape the negative thought patterns that keep you in a cycle of hypervigilance and anxiety. Through her compassionate care, you are empowered to reclaim your autonomy, rebuild your self-worth, and step confidently toward a future where you no longer live in constant fear.

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Dr. Ami Zala

Clinical Psychologist

Dr. Ami Zala, Psy.D, is a Clinical Psychologist specializing in helping individuals heal from the trauma of domestic violence, partner abuse, and assault. She understands that these violent experiences can shatter your sense of safety, leaving you in a constant state of hypervigilance and deep emotional pain. Often, these dynamics are compounded by unresolved childhood trauma, which distorts your attachment style and fosters unhealthy patterns—including codependency—where you may feel it's your fault and find it incredibly hard to leave due to deep care for your partner.

Using a specialized approach that integrates EMDR with relational and attachment-focused techniques, Dr. Zala helps you reprocess traumatic memories and challenge the internal narratives that fuel fear, mistrust, and self-blame. Her compassionate, trauma-informed methods empower you to reclaim your autonomy, break free from codependent cycles, and foster secure, fulfilling relationships—ultimately guiding you toward lasting healing and a renewed sense of self.

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How EMDR Helps with Physical Attack and Partner Abuse

Survivors of physical attack and partner abuse often carry the weight of relentless violence that shatters their sense of safety and self-worth. Many internalize the belief that the abuse was their fault, leaving them trapped in cycles of self-blame and fear. These painful experiences distort their self-image, creating a pattern where the very relationships that should provide support instead perpetuate ongoing harm and mistrust.

EMDR therapy offers a transformative pathway to break these destructive cycles by targeting and reprocessing the traumatic memories that fuel these patterns. By challenging the negative beliefs instilled by physical violence and betrayal, survivors learn to reclaim their autonomy and rebuild a robust sense of self-worth, independent of the abuse. Our patients consistently find that after EMDR, they are drawn to healthier, more balanced relationships—ones that foster genuine connection and empower them to thrive independently.

FAQ About EMDR for Physical Attack and Partner Abuse

How does EMDR work for physical attack and partner abuse?

We integrate EMDR with evidence-based techniques to address the deep emotional triggers resulting from physical violence and partner abuse. By reprocessing traumatic memories and dismantling negative beliefs, EMDR helps break the cycle of self-blame and fear, empowering you to reclaim your autonomy.

How are issues from physical attack and partner abuse connected to trauma?

Experiences of physical violence and betrayal deeply instill feelings of vulnerability and unworthiness, often leading to persistent self-blame and a reliance on external validation that hampers independent growth.

Is EMDR effective for these issues?

Yes, EMDR is particularly effective when issues stem from trauma and deeply ingrained negative self-beliefs. Many individuals find it transformative in reshaping their internal narratives and breaking free from the cycle of abuse.

Are there any risks or side effects?

EMDR is generally considered safe, though it may evoke intense emotions as traumatic memories are reprocessed. Working with a qualified therapist ensures you receive the support needed throughout your healing journey.

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Embark on a journey of healing and empowerment. Let us guide you toward a future where your self-worth is restored, and your relationships foster genuine safety and connection.